Friday, May 20, 2016

towards the end of life

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=th3_x9VzMJ0

《奇葩说》第3季 U Can U Bibi 20160514 完整版 导师破忌谈生死 马东追忆马季

生老病死, 生离死别, 每人必须经过。鼓励不鼓励绝症病人撑下去的问题,
,非常承重, 非常纠结。

The will to live without pain is the basic instinct of everyone. But we have to face the reality for the prolong suffering incurred by a bed-ridden family member on others, not only physically, it affects all family members financially and  mentally. The next-of-kins have to readjust their living, their quality time spent with each other.  


Personally speaking, I wish I will go peacefully and as swift as it can be, if I were bed-ridden with slim chances of survivor or recovery. I have to stress here that I do not have the intention to get-rid of pains, and I am not being selfish , but I do not want to cause troubles to others who may have tonnes of responsibilities and commitments.

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